Fakeera, fondly known as fafa, is an intuitive guide and conduit celebrated for her authenticity, vulnerability, and fearless way of being
Her inner
quest centers on
four guiding
principles
They shape her daily rituals of puja and japa. These principles and practices have cultivated an unshakable Faith and enabled her to access Freedom in every moment
Her mantra, "Life is Epic", stems from the profound wisdom imparted by her
daughter ~ Tara ~ who transitioned from this world at the age of
12 years and 9 months,
leaving a legacy of Love and Insight.
"We constantly live in our stories — of hurt, love, rejection, joy, hope, abandonment, desires, fears and many more — circling within them, slowly it becomes the reality we live."
Through spiritual practices like Self-Enquiry and trauma-informed methods like Psychodrama and Art-Based Interventions, Fakeera facilitates ‘Self Deconstruction’ — a process of looking beyond stories, dismantling conditioning, and reconnecting with the authentic self. Her work, intuitive and spontaneous, meets each person where they are, guiding them to jump inward towards the self.
The work is shared with individuals, couples and groups. Fakeera has extensive experience of two decades leading open workshops, corporate workshops and residential retreats.
The only way out is through
"तमेव विदित्वाऽतिमृत्युमेति नान्यः पन्था विद्यतेऽयनाय।।"
"Only by knowing That (the Self) does one go beyond death; there is no other way."
(Katha Upanishad 2.1.2)
Just as buffaloes run straight into the storm, knowing it's the quickest way through.
The work leads to jump inward, confront our shadows and transcend suffering
SELF-ENQUIRY
(a process)
This self enquiry process help us tap into the needs beneath feelings and invites reflection:
What am I feeling? Why? What is my need? Where does this feeling lead me? Where do I wish it to take me?
(find a quiet space to sit, take a few deep breaths and move through the process)
What am I feeling?
(acknowledge and name the feeling with authenticity. Express the feeling without judgement - accepting it as it is.)
for eg. "I feel sad"
Why am I feeling sad?
(the feeling is usually in response to an unmet need.)
"I feel sad because I lost my daughter and I miss her physical presence."
What is my need?
(dig deeper to tap into the unmet need or desire.)
"I long for connection with her physical form. I want to hug her, I want to talk to her."
Self-inquiry:
"Is it true that I have truly lost her and all connection with her?"
Answer:
"No, I have only lost her physical form, and I am deeply grieving."
Where does this feeling lead me?
(feelings guide our energy towards a certain direction. Recognise where this feeling is guiding your energy.)
"This sadness is taking me towards depression, deep longing and hopelessness."
Where do I wish this feeling to take me?
(it's challenging, it's possible. Sometimes we can do it ourselves and sometimes we need the support of a guide.)
"I want my sadness and my grief to lead me to acceptance, to light, and finding new ways to connect with my daughter beyond the physical."
(this process can be practiced for any feelings and stories that arise such as anxiety, anger, helplessness, unworthiness, rejection, unwanted, I am not good enough, I am a failure and many more ...)
in conversation with death
In Conversation with Death is a heartfelt initiative born from Fakeera’s transformative journey through loss and grief.
In November 2023, Fakeera’s daughter, Tara, unexpectedly left her body. This profound experience made Fakeera to deeply explore the nature of death—its meaning, the fear it evokes, and the silence surrounding it. Death, an inevitable truth for us all, became her greatest teacher.
Through this journey, she is slowly coming to terms with death—as a transition, a guide, and a mirror to life itself. This wisdom inspires her to share these teachings with the world.
This space, in the form of podcasts — invites conversations about death, exploring the fears surrounding it, its presence as loss, its role as a transition, and embracing the universal truth that connects us all.